I wish I couldn’t develop attachments..
But it’s not in my hands
rather in my heart ♥️

First of all thank you for reading this…this is my first ever blog that I’m writing.The moment I decided to join this platform, I thought , that this will be the place where I’ll outpour my thoughts but after 2 months from joining , today is the moment where I got an epiphany.
I don’t understand what sort of human I am ,the moment I’ll realize this , surely life will be much better and for now I’ll tend to live in this world full of regrets , disappointments and attachments. I have a strange habit of getting attached to the smallest of things in my life and no matter how hard I try it’s still difficult to overcome from this. You won’t believe I recently broke my coffee mug and almost cried for an hour,thinking about the memories I had with that,how childish is that isn’t it? But what to do ; this is how I am . From my very early childhood days I have lived in different places and met with different people and obviously been attached to them, the goodbyes were always hard; though we tend to make promises that we ‘ll remember each other or will call but reality is that everything fades away slowly. And that’s why I think I have become defensive ,I try to be with my own self and with my memories too, cause this is something which provides me the pure bliss though momentary but it provides me hope that some or the other day I will reconcile with those happy faces.
For today this much only,cause my list of complaints with my life is never ending.
With♥️
94 responses to “Anjali’s Blog🦋”
beautiful words Anjali❣️
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Thank you ma’am 🍁
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You’re so welcome! 💕
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Hi anjali please my blog help you
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Great blog I. Very sentimental and get attached to things
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Thank you ma’am ✨
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Your welcome 😀❤️
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Deep feelings 😃
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Thanks 🕊️
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Embrace that heart with so much love for everything (even a coffee cup). The world has a tendency to harden hearts. Get to know and love yourself. It is the best thing you can do for yourself. Thank you for sharing!!
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Glad you liked it 🦋
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Congratulations and welcome!
Please make it a habit to write a few words everyday and your talent and wisdom will prosper with this! Once having gained the confidence you shall start enjoying too. All the Best!
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Thank you sir ✨
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Your first blog is a heartfelt reflection on the complexities of attachment and the challenges of dealing with goodbyes. Your candid self-awareness shines through, and it’s a brave step to share your thoughts. Embracing your own nature, with all its intricacies, is an important part of the journey. Looking forward to reading more of your perspectives!👍
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Thank you for these words sir ✨
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🤝👍
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All the best on your blogging journey. You grow older day by day. And with each day you will gain more wisdom.
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Thank you ma’am 🕊️
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I feel you girll ❤️❤️🫂
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♥️
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Attachments are not problem, but expectations are ,,,
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Indeed🕊️
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🙏🏻😊
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Great 👍
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👍
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Life is like that you just keep writing 👌
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❤️ all the best for your blogging journey. Take it moment by moment
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This is a great way to explore those feelings! Thank you for sharing!
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great post!
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Good
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Great article with good experience 🎎
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Heart warming blog post Anjali. I just want to say, there is nothing wrong with being attached to things. Reading this blog has proven to me that you are a lady who cares and has a beautiful heart. You are not weak for crying, you are only human🙏💯
Wishing you light and success in your life
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Thank you for these words ✨
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I get attached to things and people too. It feels really bad when people don’t reciprocate in the same way as you do.
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Congratulations Anjali and I think you are a natural:) I wish you much success and satisfaction with your blog.
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Thank you for your wishes ma’am ✨
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Thanks
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Keep It Up🙂
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No.. I’m not
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Never thought of joining it…
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College..
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Cg
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Yes..
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No I’m really not a social bee..
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Not really..
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Sure
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Thank you for your appreciation and kind words ✨🦋
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Evening..
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Fine… Hope you’re doing good as well
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Nothing much..
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Are you in LinkedIn ..
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Yup.. the app
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You may drop the link here.. I’ll follow you there ..cause that’s the only thing I use
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Got it
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Radhe Radhe
thanks for my help
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Your heartfelt expression beautifully captures the struggle of navigating attachments and the profound impact even small things can have on our emotions. Your vulnerability and self-awareness shine through, making your blog relatable. Thank you for sharing this genuine piece. Look forward to more of your reflections. ♥️
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Much obliged ✨🦋
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okay, thanks Anjali for the support, It was my first time writing in public, i read your blog , i remember the line i quoted love is about hate – peace is war – pleasure is pain
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Pleased to hear this✨
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Were nice💐
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Hi Anjali your words are so beautiful 😍😍 keep writing
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Thank you so much for your warm words ✨
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♥
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The little mementos are meaningful, especially as we grow old…A seashell picked up don’t the beach, the earrings that were a gift from someone special, photos from long ago or far away. I don’t find anything strange in that, Anjali. In fact, I wrote a poem about two “Blue and White Mugs.” I enjoyed reading this post. Have a lovely weekend! ❤
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These words from you… means a lot to me ma’am ❤️
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Hi Anjali, there is no shame in being sad for that coffee mug breaking. I am the same way when I really love something. Getting rid of books is the hardest thing for me because I end up missing it after.
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Thanks for saying this ✨
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You’re in your way to great things. 👏🏽
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Thank you so much ma’am ❤️
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Heart touching words
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Thanks 🕊️
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Welcome, and a fascinating insight into thinking.
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Thank you 😊
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Thanks
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Goodbyes are hard for me too. “Hard” is a very understatement. Like your coffee mug, I have few incidences too in my life. There was a twig that fell on our car windshield, it came with us all through the way. I didn’t want to drop the twig elsewhere, so I kept it safe in my bag and once I reached our house, I kept it beside the tree. Can you believe it?
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Yup..I can relate to that ♥️
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Anjali it was endearing to read your insights. You have introspected well.
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Thank you so much 🤍
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Anjali, you sound like such a beautiful, caring human being! ❤
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Thank you for such an appreciation ♥️
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We may be attached, cause of giving over importance.
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Anjali you should be over the moon. You say this is your first Blog, just look at all the likes and replies and comments you received. I have been writing Blogs for years and for the first time this week I got likes and comments. Your girl are a very emotional, endearing person. You write from your heart that is very appealing. Keep om writing improvement comes with experience but never lose your genuineness. Try talking to the Lord about your fears. He has a way with dealing with those and getting close to Him is worth your while. Look up, look forward and keep on writing.
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Thank you so much ma’am ♥️♥️
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Haha feels like I am reading my own thoughts. 😄 Keep on writing. We will be happy to read your thoughts. ❤
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Glad you can relate ♥️
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You are emotional. I also get attached to all things which belongs to me. But you should not exclude yourself from socializing. Socializing makes memories which are very important for living
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Sure ma’am ✨🤍
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Nothing wrong with sadness over the loss of something that connects you to fond memories, even if it is a coffee mug. Things don’t matter, but the memories and emotions we have that are linked to them do.
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Nice
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It’s okay to not be okay…. changes are constant, I hope younenjoy the little things and just feel good to be alive.
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Your heartfelt words rings loud belld, and I want to assure you that your feelings are a testament to the beautiful capacity for love and connection that you possess.
It’s not childish to mourn the loss of something that held memories; it’s profoundly human. The attachments we form, no matter how small, shape our journey and color our world with meaning.
Embrace the fact that you feel deeply, for it is a rare gift to hold onto the essence of moments and people that have passed through the chapters of your life. Each place you’ve lived and every person you’ve met has contributed to the wonderful tapelet of your existence.
It’s okay to be defensive, to protect the sanctuary of your memories. They are your personal treasures, offering comfort and hope. And remember, while goodbyes may be hard, they are not the end. They are simply pauses in the melody of relationships that may find their rhythm again in the future.
You are not alone in this experience. Many of us navigate through a sea of regrets and what-ifs, but it’s important to remember that this, too, is part of being human. It’s part of growing, learning, and finding our way. Your sensitivity is a strength, and it will guide you to a life filled with richer connections and experiences.
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“That may find their rhythm again in the future “-This line 🤍. Thank you so much for your beautiful words🦋
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impressive and very sensitive Anjali. Keep up the good work.
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